Wednesday, August 31, 2011

It's Official!!!

We are now the parents of HENRY AUGUSTIN DOBROVITS!!!

Henry was Paul's mom's dad's name...

and his middle name is in honor of the Augustinian order of priests who educated Paul (and my Dad and 3 of my brothers!) at St. Rita High School here in Chicago!

We have been "paper-chasing" like crazy yesterday after court and again today to get Henry's birth certificate and passport and court documents translated... because Paul will go home soon and I will stay until all the legalities are completed to bring Henry back (in about another week).

This might be your last "fix" of Henry pics for the week...I do not know how to upload the pics from Paul's camera, so while I will still be TAKING them as we complete our time here in Henry's country, you will have to wait to SEE them until we get home!!!

We can all work on developing the virtue of patience this coming week ;-)


Sunday, August 28, 2011

Outside!!



The weather has been amazingly beautiful every single day here in Henry's country.


Except for the first day. For the first minutes where we had to walk down OUTDOOR steps from the airplane and then sprint ACROSS the runway into a bus while it was POURING rain!!


Really, since then it has been sunny with blue skies and between 70 and 80 degrees every day.


We have been cooped-up indoors with Henry for all of his visits...here they do not believe in little children being outdoors too much...especially little ones with health problems like our Henry - before this last 10 day hospitalization for bronchitis he has had at least one other hospitalization for pneumonia and one for chicken pox in his first year of life...


but today we asked and today we got the OK to bring Henry outside for some sun...


and a stroll....


my, but he LOVES the stroller!!!


The minutes daddy would stop, little insistent sounds that could be translated as "keep it moving" would start...


so move we did!


Can't wait to stroll him all over the south suburbs of Chicago!!


Please pray we get the call Monday that court is scheduled for Tuesday!!!

Tuesday, August 23, 2011

Last visit in hospital....



Henry was released back to the orphanage this afternoon, a few hours after our morning visit.


Now we get to visit him twice a day...and maybe even go for a walk outside....


or maybe we will just sit and cuddle and read...


*sigh*


it's all good.

Saturday, August 20, 2011

Details!!!



God is good, we were able to meet our sweet boy on Friday in the hospital! First we had a meeting with the orphanage director and pediatrician and some of the staff with our lawyer Natasha and translator Kate...they gave us his medical history (he had chicken pox a few months ago and pneumonia in the past as well)...they said all his caregivers love him, he knows who they are and who are strangers and he understands what they tell him...they said he loves toys and is very "active" (which should fit in very well with my other 6 children!)....they were so very glad he was going to have a family and a chance at a good life, one nurse asked if it is really true that doctors here in America could help him walk someday, we explained through the interpreter what the orthopedic doc told us about treatment and she welled up with tears, Kate said she was so happy we could get him help.... we were then allowed to go visit him at the nearby hospital with a nurse from the orphanage...

we went into a hospital (older brick buildings, we would not even considering someplace that looks like that for our medical treatment here in the US) and it was clean and sunny inside...in a small room with one bench by a window and one small changing table they brought him in...he was awakened to see us and was clearly a bit upset, making "mewing" kinds of sounds...


he had a pacifier in....and the biggest grey-blue eyes (very like my oldest son's!) I have ever seen, they take up his whole face!! He is so very tiny, probably only about 10 pounds (he just turned 1 on July 24)...he can roll over but he cannot sit up...he can grab things with his hands (like my hair!) and takes his pacifier out and holds it and then tries to put it back in....he blows raspberries and he smiled and giggled a bit when I blew them on his neck...his eyes tracked everything but it seemed to tire him out...he got very overstimulated after a bit and instead of snuggling into me he wanted to be put down...he had sores on his right thumb (looks like he sucks on it for comfort) and 2 teeth on the top and 4 on the bottom...he needed to lay and look at the wall for a bit to calm down...then after a while he looked back at me and would make eye contact and I rewarded him with kisses on his cheeks, which he seemed to like...


his legs/hips are VERY affected by the arthrogryposis, he can move them but they "flail" about...his chest muscles are probably also involved as it is like he is permanently arching back (although that could also be because of his larger head on the tiny body and lack of muscle tone)...his fingers and hands are also involved but not as severely as he can reach and grab VERY well and seems to have very good hand-eye coordination...


I am in love.


Friday, August 12, 2011

Eisenhower's got nothin' on me....



Planning the D-Day invasion....


puh.


Child's Play.


Try planning for an extended trip overseas with no definite date of return and getting your 6 children living at home attending 5 different schools ready to begin while you are gone...


Why, yes West Point, I am ready to serve as a consultant whenever my country needs me.

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Remember to click on the little pic of Henry to help out, then leave a comment (or email me at Dobspc@aol.com) to be entered to win your choice of the crystal heart necklaces pictured in the previous post! Thanks a bunch!!

Tuesday, August 9, 2011

WE need YOU!

WE are leaving for Eastern Europe to meet our precious Henry VERY SOON...

WE have been told that due to the European habit of taking very long vacations in August, that our court date MAY be delayed...

WE need to be prepared to meet Henry, and then head BACK home until our Court date if it will not be scheduled until September...

WE have been blessed with a bit over $15,000 in both our Reece's Rainbow FSP AND direct contributions to our personal adoption fund...

WE estimate the total costs of our adoption of Henry to be about $25,000....

WE have worked hard fundraising (bracelets sales at our Church and and Yard Sale in June at my parents), saving and earning extra money, and we are so grateful for the donations from friends, family, and those in the online and AMC community...

BUT

WE could really use one last push to make sure we have enought to Bring Henry Home!

Can YOU help?

If YOU can, please make a donation to our FSP by clicking the little picture of Henry in the right margin...

then leave a comment below! Just say "Hi!" or "Good luck!"

Any amount.

I will then have my 2yo pick a name from the comments out of a hat on Monday night August 15 and give the winner his or her choice of either handmade Swarovski crystal necklace - the smaller lighter red one or the larger very dark red one. Courtesy of my fabulous mother!

This is your chance to be part of redemption. Saving a life. A soul.

Thank YOU from the bottom of this mother's heart.


Monday, August 8, 2011

JOY!!


We have a date!!! We will be traveling soon to our precious baby!!!

Please keep us in your prayers....

for safe travel...

for a smooth bureaucratic process overseas...

for our children staying behind (esp. Tessa!).....

for a child with a heart open to our love!!



Sunday, August 7, 2011

As we wait...

for news....

big news...

I was punched in the gut while reading a post at http://www.nogreaterjoymom.com/2011/08/when-i-needed-perspective.html

I am reposting most of it below - authored by Richard Sterns.

It is long. It is hard hitting.

Thank you for taking the time to read it....

and please know that I am convicting only myself...everyone needs to consider what these words mean to them and their own personal response to the poor and hungry here in the US and all over the world.

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"For I was hungry and you gave me food, I was thirsty and you gave me drink ..." --Matthew 25:35-36

Jesus' words are a powerful and inspiring reminder as I sit in my office browsing on news websites the stories and images of the staggering tragedy unfolding in the Horn of Africa.

Nearly 10 million people are "critically short of food," according to the United Nations, due to what UN officials say is the region's worst drought since I was born 60 years ago. Those 10 million people live in Kenya, Ethiopia, Uganda, Djibouti and war-ravaged Somalia.

For some, the stories and images will be reminders of the Ethiopian famine. Twenty-five years ago, the images of bloated, dying children, images unlike any others seen before by millions of Americans, prompted a massive outpouring of donations and offers to help. That outpouring culminated in the "Live Aid," concerts in Philadelphia and London, the latter of which brought a group I had never heard of before to the world's attention -- U2.

For others, the name "Somalia" brings back the events of 1991-1994 when hundreds of thousands of Somalis were starving, prompting a U.S.-led peacekeeping force to intervene. That effort led to a military operation against Somali warlords and, regrettably, the deaths of 42 American soldiers.

I am reminded of two things.

First, the faces, the voices and the stories of people I've met in Kenya, Ethiopia and Uganda. Kenya was the first nation I visited after joining World Vision in 1998, and where I learned one of the most important lessons of my life: Poverty is not an image, or a statistic; poverty has a face, a name and a story.

Second, I am reminded of the powerful and provocative quote from Josef Stalin: "A single death is a tragedy; a million deaths is a statistic."

I fear that for many Americans -- Christians and people of other faiths or no faith -- will devote little time or attention, let alone resources, to the people suffering in the Horn of Africa. Rather they are preoccupied with "First World problems":

~~ How fluctuations in the stock market are affecting my 401(k) investments;
~~ Where to go on my next vacation;
~~ Whether to buy "name brand" or "store brand" items in the supermarket;
~~ Which diet and workout regimen will enable me to lose 10 pounds in a month; or
~~ The struggle over my next computer -- a notebook, a laptop, or the new iPad2?

Or worse, they are obsessed with finding out where Casey Anthony might be living, now that she's been released from jail after being acquitted of charges that she murdered her daughter, Caylee. Thousands of Americans followed Ms. Anthony's trial closely, and expressed outrage when she was found not guilty. They wanted justice for Caylee's death. Where's their outrage or sense of justice for the millions of children at-risk of dying in the Horn of Africa? Their lack of attention proves the late Soviet premier's admonition.

Many "First World" Americans have never met a person with "Third World problems":

~~ Whose income is $2 a day and who has never heard of a 401 (K);
~~ Whose only travel plans are traipsing by foot from Somalia into Kenya to a refugee camp;
~~ Whose primary source of drinking water is infested with animal feces, and has never been inside a supermarket;
~~ Who lost 10 pounds in the last week because of too little or even no food, and who has no use for a health club membership; or
~~ Who has no access to electricity, and does not need -- and maybe has not ever seen -- a computer.

I have the privilege of knowing people facing both First World and Third World problems. It is a privilege because, I believe, Jesus would consider it a privilege. He met with, ate meals alongside and learned from those His society considered its lowest and its outcasts -- prostitutes, tax-collectors, the poor and victims of injustice.

He would have been honored to meet and serve people like Hawo, a woman believed to be about 75-years-old who lives in Kalabeyr, a remote town in northern Somalia. Thanks to my World Vision colleagues working in the region, I know more about Hawo, than I ever will know -- or even want to know -- about Casey Anthony.

After the drought killed the more than 500 goats and sheep Hawo and her eight children lived on, they were forced to abandon their pastoral way of life and move to Kalabeyr. The nine of them live in a makeshift tukul, a small room within the compound of one of the town residents.

It is Hawo whom Mark Bowden, United Nations Humanitarian Coordinator for Somalia, might have been thinking of when he said recently: "Resources are woefully inadequate. We have an appeal that is at the moment only 40 per cent met. ... (W)e find ourselves as the humanitarian community in a position that we want and are able to do more, but just don't have the resources with which to do it."

Jesus' words about hunger and thirst, as quoted in Matthew, led me a few years ago to create an NIT version (New Irreverent Translation), one that Americans obsessed with "First World problems" might relate to:

"For I was hungry, while you had all you needed. I was thirsty, but you drank bottled water."

We did not create the desperate conditions of drought and famine threatening the lives of 10 million people in the Horn of Africa. But, as Christians, it is our responsibility to do something about it. It is our moral duty to help our neighbors in need -- here in the U.S. and elsewhere, and God commands us to help those we have the means to help. We cannot look at their situation -- on television, in newspapers or magazines, or on the Internet -- shrug our shoulders, and say, "Not my problem."

Written by Richard Stearns.

Thursday, August 4, 2011

Something is a-brew-in' ....

In honor of my Ninja-lovin' boys....

a little morning levity...

in the hopes that we have an awesome announcement soon...

keep checkin' in and we will keep you posted...

and let you know as soon as possible!

Now to hit my morning coffee for real...

it will not be delivered by a ninja.

Monday, August 1, 2011

Today I am pondering....



...these words on back of a book I found on the clearance shelf at Borders -



"Don't Waste Your Life" by John Piper.



In the interests of full disclosure I have not read the book yet, but this preview passage captivated me.



"I will tell you what a tragedy is. I will show you how to waste your life. Consider this story from the February 1998 Reader's Digest: A couple took early retirement from their jobs in the Northeast five years ago when he was 59 and she was 51. Now they live in Punta Gorda, Florida, where they cruise on their 30 foot trawler, play softball and collect shells....Picture them...on the great day of judgment: 'Look, Lord. See my shells.' That is a tragedy."



I have spent the last 6+ months having my eyes opened to the needs of orphans, especially those with special needs.



The word "tragedy" applies to them as well.



On what...



or WHO....



will we spend our time and treasure on our brief days on this earth?

Collecting shells...

or soothing hurting souls?